What you allow is what will continue

This is such a powerful quote. What you allow, is what will continue.

The power is in YOUR hands.
Whether you realize it or not, YOU have control over how others treat you, and what behaviours you will accept.

So, if you allow your lover to put you in second place, this pattern will continue.

This is what he knows.
Why would he want to change the situation?
He is not leaving is wife any time soon.
He is in a comfy position, so long as you allow it.

You deserve the full package, not just bits and pieces!

If you want anything to change, you need stop allowing the access he has to you, and the control he has over your life.

Whether that involves a conversation, setting boundaries, or cutting ties.

The power is in YOUR hands to live the life, and have the love, that you desire!

Sending love and light,
Annie